Controversy has erupted in the world of children's books. Reports the New York Times (site here requires subscription, but free copy is here):
raphe– the seamlike union of two halves of a body organ (as the tongue)
[pronounced rā'fē. Greek rhaphe seam, rhaptein to sew]
– Guanzhong Luo, C. H. Brewitt-Taylor, Robert E. Hegel, Romance of the Three Kingdoms
The raphe is … a generally neglected part of male anatomy.
– Lisa Sussman, Sex in the City
Grose's 1811 Dictionary of the Vulgar Tongue provides many of our words this week. Gross often has a witty way with his definitions, such as this one:
rantallion – one whose scrotum is so relaxed as to be longer than his penis, i.e. whose shot pouch is longer than the barrel of his piece. (See here.)
I find no useful quotation for this word. But one otherwise-forgettable website claims to be a "support group" for rantallions. How jocular!
Grose records that that a constable was sometimes called a thingstable, which he calls "a ludicrous affectation of delicacy in avoiding the pronunciation of the first syllable in the title of that officer, which in sound has some similarity to an indecent monosyllable." The monosyllable or venerable monosyllable is, of course, the "pudendum muliebre".
As you might expect, Grosse gives numerous synonyms, often with an interesting definition or explanation. I quote:
c**t – the chonnos of the Greek, and the cunnus of the Latin dictionaries; a nasty name for a nasty thing: un con miege.
Carvel's ring – Ham Carvel, a jealous old doctor, being in bed with his wife, dreamed that the Devil gave him a ring, which, so long as he had it on his finger, would prevent his being made a cuckold: waking he found he had got his finger the Lord knows where.
commodity – the private parts of a modest woman, and the public parts of a prostitute
Eve's custom-house – where Adam made his first entry
fruitful vine – has flowers every month, and bears fruit in nine months
hat – because frequently felt
ware – a woman's ware; her commodity
Other synonyms include bite; black joke; bottomless pit; cock alley; doodle sack; dumb glutton; man trap; Miss Laycock; money; mother of all saints; notch; tuzzy-muzzy; and water-mill.
This reminds me of a recurring joke in the movie Grumpy Old Men where one of the characters is using all sorts of euphemisms for sex:
"gonna take the skin boat to tuna town"
"gonna play hide the salami"
there were several others, which I now forget.
"Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
ithyphallic – having the penis erect (typically applied to statues) (also: lascivious; salacious; obscene; lewd)
– Wall Street Journal, Aug. 14, 1998
Moreover, the Boy President's ithyphallic behavior continued in the White House as was made luridly clear with the 1998 national debut of Monica Lewinsky.
– Washington Times, Oct. 10, 2003
Today's illustrative quotation is from Margaret Sanger (1879–1966), whom Time Magazine named one of the 20 most influential leaders of the last century. On a list that includes Churchill, Gandhi, FDR, Lenin, Pope John Paul II, Hitler, Thatcher, M.L. King, Walesa, Mao, etc., she is the only one who is little-known today.
Sanger insisted that each woman is "the absolute mistress of her own body". "Woman must have her freedom—the fundamental freedom of choosing whether or not she shall be a mother and how many children she will have." In an era when time "contraceptive information was so suppressed that it was a criminal offense to send it through the mail," Sanger fought a "decades-long battle to legalize birth control" (a term she coined). Her effects reached even farther, for when contraception finally became a fully-protected right in the U.S. (1965 for married women; 1972 for all), it was on a the legal rationale – the right to privacy – that later became the basis for the right to abortion. Beyond this, "[Sanger's] crusade to legalize birth control spurred the movement for women's liberation." (Gloria Steinham)
With that introduction, we turn to today's word.
karezza – coitus reservatus; the male refrains from (not merely delays) ejaculation
[coined 1896 by Alice Bunker Stockham, from Italian for 'caress'. Dr. Stockham claimed that the bady requires two weeks to a month to recover from orgasm, and that frustration results if one 'drains the basin' before it has been replenished.]
. . .Thousands of well-intentioned people advocate continence as the one permissible means of birth control. Few of these people agree with one another, however, as to what continence is. Some have in mind absolute continence. Others urge continence for periods varying from a few weeks to many years. Still others are thinking of Karezza, or male continence, as it is sometimes called.
. . .[1.] Enforced continence is injurious; often highly so. Can anyone knowing the facts ask that we recommend continence as a birth-control measure? Few who advocate the doctrine of absolute continence live up to it strictly.
. . .[2.] Such continence as is involved in dependence upon the so-called “safe period” is not practical. It simply does not work. Women are learning from experience that the “safe period” is anything but safe for all women.
. . .[3.] In the same category as the “safe period,” as a method of birth control, must be placed so-called “ male continence” “Karezza”. Those who regard it as a method of family limitation are likely to find themselves disappointed.
. . .Summing it all up, then, continence may meet the needs of a few natures, but it does not meet the needs of the masses. To enforce continence upon those whose natures do not demand it, is an injustice, the cruelty and the danger of which has been underestimated rather than exaggerated.
– Margaret Sanger, Woman and the New Race, in ch. 9 (1920) (ellipses omitted)
Very interesting, Wordcrafter. I consider myself to be somewhat of a feminist, but I must admit that I've not heard of her before. Her accomplishments seem phenomenal. You have inspired me to read more about her.
Personally I would suggest that frustration would result from the opposite action (or inaction).
Are there any male doctors who have published similar hypotheses?
fiesty – aggressive, excitable, touchy
Why, you ask, is this familiar word in our 'vulgar tongue' theme? Because it traces to an old word for farting.
Old English fisting, meaning "stink," led to four words for "a fart" or "to fart": fise, fice, and fist (all pronounced with a long i) and fizzle. Grose teaches that fizzle means "an escape backward" (one can see how today's meaning is related), and that a fice is "a small windy escape backwards, more obvious to the nose than ears; frequently by old ladies charged on their lap-dogs."
One can understand that a farting-word could be used as a general insult (just as the other f-ing word is used), particularly when smell is involved. A small, mangy, smelly, no-account dog came to be called a fysting cur, later shorted to a fice or a feist. And still later, feist led to the word feisty to describe the personality of such a dog.
My Swedish mother uses the word fice (but pronounces it to rhyme with peace) for the verb "to fart" and ficer for the noun. Does anyone know if this is still common in Swedish today? My mother's Swedish tends to be archaic.
manustupration – masturbation [from Latin manus "hand" + stuprare "defile"]
Grose gives several terms for the same thing, including:
– to mount a corporal and four (Grose: " the thumb is the corporal, the four fingers the privates.")
– to box the Jesuit (Grose: "a crime, it is said, much practised by the reverend fathers of that society.")
A further synonym begins this week's theme: eponyms, or words from personal names.
onanism – masturbation (also: coitus interruptus; an interesting pairing of meanings!)
[from Onan in the Bible, Genesis, ch. 38. Onan's name is almost always used in the first sense, although in the bible he acted in the second sense. The Lord deemed his onanism a capital offense.]