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How odd. I came across this while verifying the etymology of ravin and rape in OED. The most important verb-sense of 'rape' is of course the sexual one. OED gives nine sample quotes, and the first four are just what you'd expect: women victims of men:
a1641 To … torment their bodies, rape their wives and daughters. 1861 She charged that … he had violently assaulted and raped her. 1885 Females who have been raped or indecently assaulted.
1971 The first of the series of sexually voracious women who seek virtually to rape him. 1972 The girls had taken their clothes off and intended to rape him. 1977 These women have been confined for a variety of offences, chief among which are soliciting and manslaughter. When a man finds his way into their midst, he is promptly raped. 1977 A man … claimed he had been assaulted and raped by four other prisoners. ¹ OED's pattern is similar for 'rape' as a noun.¹ Here are its 20th- or 21st-century examples:
1981 The president of the National Viewers' and Listeners' Association … is bringing a summons against the director of the play … over the scene of homosexual rape. 1977 Hardly a year goes by without a gang rape at Green Haven. On New Year's Eve, 1976 … a … man was forcibly assaulted and sodomized. 1975 [figurative] It is his job to save Juli from the hangman and, in the final court scene, he does it by the public rape of the boy's secret personality and the destruction of his genius. | ||
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yeahbut, in the noun cases all but one are homosexual rape, and that one is figurative. | |||
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So, you think the male editors of the OED fantasize about being raped by a female and the female editors fantasize about raping a male? The original meaning of rape was to "seize prey, take by force," according to Online Etymology Dictionary. Rape, in the original sense, wasn't specifically directed against one sex, nor did it necessarily involve sexual acts. It was about a hundred years later before it took on this meaning. And even then, some acts were not considered rape. For example, forced sexual intercourse with a woman by her husband was not considered rape. The concept of rape has evolved. I first heard of two women raping a man in the late '50s or early '60s. Homosexual rape has probably been around for centuries, though it is only fairly recently (as far as I know) that it has been called that. Definitions of rape vary. Dictionary.com gives nine definitions, one of which is "any act of sexual intercourse that is forced upon a person." Some of the definitions don’t even involve sex; for example, "to seize, take, or carry off by force." Merriam-Webster's Dictionary of Law (same link, near bottom of page) defines it as "unlawful sexual activity and usually sexual intercourse carried out forcibly or under threat of injury against the will usually of a female or with a person who is beneath a certain age or incapable of valid consent because of mental illness, mental deficiency, intoxication, unconsciousness, or deception." [emphasis mine] It includes this note: "NOTE: The common-law crime of rape involved a man having carnal knowledge of a woman not his wife through force and against her will, and required at least slight penetration of the penis into the vagina. While some states maintain essentially this definition of rape, most have broadened its scope esp. in terms of the sex of the persons and the nature of the acts involved. Marital status is usually irrelevant. Moreover, the crime is codified under various names, including first degree sexual assault sexual battery unlawful sexual intercourse, and first degree sexual abuse. MedLinePlus (the U.S. National Library of Medicine and the National Institutes of Health)gives this definition: "Rape is defined as sexual intercourse forced on a person without his or her permission." OneLook lists 43 references for rape. Sexual violence, including abuse and rape, is thought by many to be committed mostly by men against women. But it isn't necessarily so. The problem of sexual violence against children has been recognized in the past few years. And many women are among the abusers. It was always there, but not thought to be so prevalent. Likewise, homosexual rape and abuse of men and women in prison) is rampant. I have no doubt it's common outside prisons, too. And I think rape and sexual abuse of men by women is much more common than realized. The Wikipedia article on rape includes references to men being raped by women. Here are a few of them:
Here are more links, in case you care to check them out. Former teacher accused in second rape Women Raping Men By RICHARD MORGAN (Charm and Rigor) Police Say HIV-Positive Woman Raped Boy (Local6.com - Avoca, Ark.) Reversal of Fortune: The Rape of Men by Women by Jarrod Reich, Brandeis University Class of 2001 (13-page article) Former teacher's aide receives one-year sentence By Kim Lincoln (The Courier-Gazette, Maine) More women charged in sex cases By Wendy Koch (USA Today) College men nearly as likely as women to report they are victims of unwanted sexual coercion by Joel Schwarz (University of Washington) Counseling Services For Male Victims of Sexual Assault (Montana State University) Not Only Men Are Molesters By MAURA DOLAN (Los Angeles Times) Battered Men - The Hidden Side of Domestic Violence by Bert H. Hoff Sexually Aggressive Women: Current Perspectives and Controversies by Peter B. Anderson,Cindy Struckman-Johnson; ISBN: 978-1-57230-165-8, Guilford Press, 1998, 244 pp (link is to 4-page review by Renee N. Saris in Journal of Sex Research) Rape Myths By Gillian Greensite (CALCASA - California Coalition Against Sexual Assault)
Facts and Myths About Date Rape (SmarterSex.org)
List of RAPE MYTHS (University of Minnesota Duluth)
Rape is a heinous crime perpetrated against women, men, girls, boys, and babies. TinmanThis message has been edited. Last edited by: tinman, | |||
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quote: Rape is a heinous crime Agreed -- and I hope and trust that no one mis-interprets my post as trivializing the crime of sexual assault. I am merely pointing out that of OED's 20th-century quotes illustrating the word 'rape', none involves the particular type of rape which (I believe) is overwhelmingly the most common type and is the type which the word immediately calls to mind. Such a selection of quotes seems, to me, odd enough to raise the questioon of why they were so selected. | |||
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quote: yeahbut, in the noun cases all but one are homosexual rape, and that one is figurative. yeahrebut™ [love that word!], not one of the nine quotations involves what is the typical case: female raped by male. | |||
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I don't think Wordcrafter ever meant to say that rape is only a word to describe sexual assault of a woman by a man. Instead, one might find it curious to see so many quotes relating to women raping men. Yes, it can occur. What would one think the percentages of each are? I won't take a guess, but clearly no one would dispute that over 50% of the time a man rapes a woman, correct? Thus, the interesting choice of quotes. | |||
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