Garrison Keillor just had a column differentiating between "dating" and "hanging out."
quote:
I was at the café last night and caught a conversation between two girls about whether one of them had dated a particular boy or was just hanging out with him, an interesting piece of semantics. Texting the boy on a cell phone was what distinguished hang-out from date: She had flashed him a friendly “What’s up?” and he being nearby met her for a dish of ice cream, and they migrated to a party at his friend’s house and thence to his grandma’s, where he is currently living (and driving Grandma’s BMW), his parents having cut him loose financially since he quit school to become a writer. There was audible eye-rolling on the word “writer.” She didn’t want to date him because he was too screwed up, so it was only a hang-out situation. I wanted to know more about the BMW guy who lived with Grandma — think of it! Unconditional love plus a luxury automobile with a perpetual full tank of gas — but the girls drifted away and left me sitting alone, staring into my latte."
That's an interesting distinction. What is your definition of "hanging out?"
I've heard this distinction. "Hanging out" is even more casual than dating. It may or may not involve physical intimacy . . . most likely not. Very casual encounters with sex (usually just the sex without any other relating required) fall into the category of "hooking up".
******* "Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions. ~Dalai Lama
Very casual encounters with sex (usually just the sex without any other relating required) fall into the category of "hooking up".
Would unhooking require a hospital visit?
I heard a new word today from one of the redneck announcers at a NASCAR event. "Today I heard a story that was very heartwhelming."If it gets too big, will it break or explode?
I understand your wanting to be with your sweetheart. However, I sure like Portland. Adventures are exciting, though. You will like the midwest, and we'll be able to get together much more often!