My boss & I have a disagreement--so I will ask you.
Internally, people are complaining about their bosses, other departments, the organizational structure, and each other. My boss calls that "gossiping". I think of gossip as being much worse--spreading rumors. I think the staff is merely complaining (or maybe there is a better word?)
Looking up "gossip": the first definitions support my view: "Rumor or talk of a personal, sensational, or intimate nature". Even though there are definitions of "chatty" or "idle talk", they still don't seem to apply to my boss's use of the word. BTW, evidently "gossip" in England also can mean "Godparent", according to one source?
In short, I am right. I am always right. It's a family trait. I got it from my father who was always right as well except for one time when he mistakenly thought he was wrong but then it turned out that he was right. You were right to come to me, Kalleh. Even when I'm wrong, I'm right.
And before all the rest of you jump all over me, I'm just kidding!
To me, much of what you describe is not gossip. Here's the breakdown:
"The boss is often late to work." = a reasonable work-related observation and, as such, not gossip.
"The boss is often late to work since he's having an affair." = same as the above but more juicily phrased. Still not gossip as long as the focus remains on the lateness.
"The boss has been kidnapped by aliens who are attmpting to mate him with Elvis and sell the babies." Well, there you've crossed the line into the cesspool world which is gossip although, if this turns out to be true, it would well explain why the boss has been running a bit late recently.
quote:Originally posted by C J Strolin: In short, I am right. I am always right. It's a family trait. I got it from my father who was always right as well except for one time when he mistakenly thought he was wrong but then it turned out that he was right. You were right to come to me, Kalleh. Even when I'm wrong, I'm right.
C.J. I'd like to congratulate you on your deep and sincere self-effacing modesty. Such a refreshing trait in a colonial.
Kalleh, it simply sounds like bonding behavior, or normal office politics, not dreaded gossip!
I'm reminded of the two secretaries who were discussing their boss. Quoth one, "The boss dresses so nicely, and looks so handsome in the tie I gave him." The other replied, "Yes, he does dress well, and quickly, too!"
Okay, people, now I am really confused. I looked up the etymology of "gossip" in Oxford's Etymology and found that it comes from godsibb, meaning godfather. It defined "gossip" as a "sponsor at baptism" or "familiar acquaintance", though it then goes on to say "idle talk". However, now I am curious as to when, and how, this word changed meanings. Anybody? Also, those of you in England, do you call a godparent a gossip?
I heard the following story from a fellow logophile: "All the children born in a given year would be baptised at one ceremony. They became "God's siblings". Since they all knew each other, later in life they would naturally swap rumors and tell tales = gossip."
Fellow Brits, do they call Godparents "gossips" in England?
sibling - 1903, modern revival (in anthropology) of O.E. sibling "relative, kinsman," from sibb (adj.) "kinship, relationship" (1500; surviving as sib, chiefly in Scottish), from P.Gmc. *sebjo.Related to the second element in gossip
gossip - O.E. godsibb "godparent," from God + sibb "relative," of unknown origin. Extended in M.E. to "any familiar acquaintance," later (1566) to "anyone engaging in familiar or idle talk." Sense extended 1811 to "trifling talk, groundless rumor."
